Who runs this
An independent site, not a professional service
Is My Boyfriend Cheating is an independent site. It is not a counselling service, an investigation firm, or a medical or legal practice. No counsellors, no investigators, and no professional credentials are claimed here. The 18 questions are a self-report record, not an assessment.
How the questions were written and weighted
Each of the 18 observations was written as a plain, second-person question about something you could have noticed. Each carries a weight from 1 to 4 that reflects how many ordinary explanations survive the observation — how much it narrows things down — and every one ships with a real innocent explanation. The weights add to a maximum of 44, and your result is a simple weighted count. Nothing is guessed, and nothing is a judgement about your partner.
How the site is funded
The site is funded by one sponsored offer behind the full record on the result page. The free result — your band, your count, your three heaviest observations and a next step — is complete on its own and never blocked. The offer is optional, and nothing you tap here is ever sent anywhere by this site.
Claire Donovan
Claire Donovan is a couples counselor and relationship education editor with more than 11 years of experience teaching communication, boundary setting, and conflict de-escalation. Her work focuses on distinguishing patterns from isolated events and helping people name what they need without presenting suspicion as proof.
At Is My Boyfriend Cheating, Claire reviews content for non-accusatory language and emotional-safety guidance. The quiz cannot determine whether someone is cheating and is not a substitute for counseling, legal advice, or emergency support.